A true beauty and talent, Selena Gomez has captivated hearts through her soulful voice and acting prowess. Her personal life, particularly her relationships, has always been a subject of curiosity for fans. Let’s delve into the highlights of her dating history.
1. Nick Jonas (2008)
A Disney Channel connection was Selena’s introduction to Nick Jonas and a sweet teenage romance. After all, when she was seen wearing Nick’s Elvis Costello t-shirt and in his “Burnin’ Up” music video, rumors began flying. Although she dated him briefly, Selena remained friendly with Nick and even nixed rumors that she was competitive with Miley Cyrus, who was also seen with him.
2. Taylor Lautner (2009)
While filming in Vancouver, Selena encountered Twilight star Taylor Lautner. Their short-lived relationship ended amicably, and Lautner later dated Selena’s friend, Taylor Swift.

3. Justin Bieber (2010–2018)
Selena and Justin Bieber had a very on-again, off-again relationship that was featured in headlines for nearly a decade. Beginning with a pancake date in 2010, their romance was filled with public appearances, drama, and emotional ups and downs. Their final breakup in 2018 is what inspired Selena to write the hit “Lose You to Love Me.” She later described the split as the pivotal moment of her life.
4. Zedd (2015)
While collaborating on the track “I Want You to Know,” Selena and DJ Zedd briefly dated. Though their relationship ended quickly, Selena spoke fondly of Zedd, calling their time together “nice.”
5. The Weeknd (2017)
Selena’s romance with The Weeknd was a whirlwind, filled with international travels and red-carpet moments. Despite their deep connection, their relationship ended after nearly a year due to their demanding schedules.
6. Other Notable Romances
Included in the list are reports of other rumored romantic flings including Niall Horan, Charlie Puth, and Zayn Malik, although the latter were quite short-lived.
7. Benny Blanco (2023-Present)

Music producer Benny Blanco was Selena’s most recent significant other, publicly dating her beginning in 2024 with warm posts shared publicly and photos shared at the time of going out publicly. In essence, she admits to being obsessed with the boyfriend, labeling him her “absolute everything.”
Through the ups and downs, Selena’s love life has mirrored her journey of self-discovery. As she continues to inspire fans with her resilience and creativity, her story serves as a reminder that love, in all its forms, is a part of life’s growth.